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XVII.
THE GREATER HOPE *
Be ye also patient; stablish your hearts: for the
coming of the Lord draweth nigh. JAS.
v. 8.
WE saw the other
day that Christianity, true or false, works; that, tested by the
practical tests of results, it holds the field; that, divine or
human, it gives to poor, sick humanity that which it most
needs—hope; and that that hope has quickened, regenerated, developed
and inspired man as nothing else has ever done. Let
Christianity be what she may, she has got out of man, and enabled
him to get out of the world and life, higher results than any other
thing has ever produced.
Now let me read you a quotation from Mr. Balfour's
Foundations of Belief: 'The energies of our system will decay,
the glory of the sun will be dimmed, and the earth, tideless and
inert, will no longer tolerate the race which has for a moment
disturbed its solitude. Imperishable monuments, immortal
deeds, and love stronger than death, will be as though they had not
been, nor will anything be better or worse for all the labour,
genius, devotion, and suffering men have striven to effect.'
If that be Mr. Balfour's opinion, and not a quotation, let us hope
he is a better politician than philosopher.
Does anybody believe that it is good for us, for the world,
to believe that? Is that sort of thing likely to make things
better? Will the sweet flowers of hope and love and
self-sacrifice thrive in such an atmosphere? Will that theory
of the universe inspire men to the heroism of the forlorn hope, or
kindle heroic schemes of betterment in brave men's breasts?
Will that keep the slum angels at their dreary tasks or strengthen
the patience and brighten the solitude of the lonely missionary?
Will that turn selfish men into human Christs and fill busy brains
with blessed philanthropies?—Have done! The world has listened
long enough to empty philosophies and vague metaphysics; the sick
world's first care is to get well; she wants not treatises and 'ologies
and theories; she wants medicine. Oh, yes; one of the
strongest arguments for spiritual religion is the appeal it makes to
our deeper nature. The whole man in us revolts at such a
picture as Mr. Balfour paints; we feel it is false, and Christianity
appeals to us because it stands for the world's highest motives for
struggle and advance. It embodies and idealizes the instinct
of progress, and paints ever-brightening pictures of the beyond as
the strongest provocatives to the lowly duties and endurances of the
present. As Professor James says: 'The need of an eternal
moral order is one of the deepest needs of our nature. A world
with a God in it, to say the last word, may indeed burn up or
freeze, but we shall then think of Him as still mindful of the old
ideals, and sure to bring them somewhere to fruition. So that
where He is tragedy is only partial, temporary, and provisional, and
shipwreck and dissolution not the absolute, final things.' And
he adds, in another place: 'Spiritual religion means simply the
affirmation of an eternal moral order and the letting loose of
hope.' Dr. Martineau observes: 'In proportion as our nature
rises in its nobleness does it realize its immortality. As it
retires from animal grossness, from selfish meanness, from pitiable
ignorance or sordid neglect; as it opens forth into true
intellectual and moral glory, do its doubts disperse, its affections
rise; the veil is uplifted from the future, the darkness breaks
away, and the spirit walks in dignity within the Paradise of God's
eternity.' Canon Mozley points out that 'the opposition to
Christianity has something stronger to deal with than Biblical
criticism, than systems of philosophy, than history, than science,
than logic: it has to deal with human nature, with profound,
indestructible instincts, with invincible hopes and aspirations,
with dreams and ideals and stubborn ambitions, and with such partial
and tentative realizations of these ambitions as are irresistibly
prophetic of greater things to come.' You tell me that I am an
animal, that I have no future, that my struggles and sacrifices and
aspirations have no reward, and all the deepest things in me protest
and defy you; and man's own history, the equally groundless and
impossible hopes he has had, and in spite of logic and proof has
realized, contradict you. Your very evolution theory,
foolishly advanced to knock the bottom out of all my dreaming, only
confirms and re-inspires it. If in the age-long past I was so
mean a thing, and yet have come so far, that to me is amplest
warrant that there are heights and depths and lengths and breadths
to which I have not yet attained. You tell me I was once a
particle of formless plasm at the bottom of an ever-silent sea!
I welcome your bit of history and turn it into prophecy. If I
have come so far and am now the thing I feel to be, I shall go
farther. 'Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither hath it
entered into the heart of man to conceive' the things that God hath
laid up for me.
These are dreams, are they? Vain imaginations?—well,
they work. They have anticipated every upward stride the race
has ever taken, and we trust them still! Every step of the
race's upward climb, and every personal, social, scientific or
political gift we enjoy, was once such a vague, idle dream of some
solitary poetic soul, and we trust them still! Fictions!
creations of feverish imagination!—they have made the race what it
is, and we trust them still. Optimism, mere poetry! But
they work, they act, they make always and everywhere for betterment.
They have given dignity to life's drudgery, meaning to its mystery,
glory to its suffering, inspiration to its sacrifices, hope and
strength to the fallen, patience to the baffled worker, and
perseverance to the disheartened. They have sanctified human
love, beautified poverty, consecrated the home, inspired and
sustained impossible tasks, purified the State, and covered the
world with fruitful philanthropies. They are still meeting the
ever-growing ambitions and ever-expanding powers of man with
widening horizons, lengthening vistas, and alluring pictures of the
triumphs of the future. What? We only believe them
because they are inspiring? because we want to believe them?
Well, well, can you tell us any other thing that produces such
effects? Are we the worse or the better for desiring and so
believing?—
To let the new life in, we know,
Desire must ope the portal;
Perhaps the longing to be so
Helps make the soul immortal. |
Yes, Christianity, be she what she may, has given the world a
hope and a future. Never mind, for a moment, what she is or is
not. Does she work? Does she help things, sweeten,
brighten, enrich things? Is the world the better and the
individual man the braver, purer for her? Do her plans and
principles produce anything? To-day the long-sick world rises
from her bed to judge her multitudes of physicians. 'By their
fruits ye shall know them.' Tell us what Christianity does,
and we will find out for ourselves what she is. Let her keep
on breaking the world's chains, lightening its darkness, soothing
its suffering, removing its miseries, and re-enkindling its hopes,
and she may call herself what she likes. This is the dumb,
inarticulate thought that lies deep in the hearts of the world's
millions to-day, and I, for one, am not afraid of the answer.
Yes, Christianity is so much concentrated encouragement; her
coming is the coming of wine to the dining-table of life; the man
who drinks, drinks undiluted hope and thrills with the champagne of
optimism.
Then why do we get depressed? Why do we grow despondent
and fretful and recriminative? Because we have a great heavy
world to lift, and our difficulties are many and serious; but most
of all because in our concentration on present trying tasks we lose
sight of the golden prospects.
Trouble is a great dissolver and separates, a corrosive that
dissolves the cement of love and charity. Famishing wolves
turn and rend each other, failing men become cynics, and
unsuccessful authors critics. Defeated political parties are
plagued with disruption, and failing causes break up into wrangling
sections, and discouraged workers fall foul of each other. We
have had ample evidence in our study of this Epistle that the
oppressed, down-trodden early Christians, in their disappointment,
took it out of each other, and were envious, quarrelsome, and
peevish. What a spectacle to the world! And what a
satire on the gospel of love!
At the same time it was very natural, very human. If my
own work drags it is the most natural thing in the world for me to
criticize the one who succeeds. What is the cause?
It is an old difficulty, as common as the race. We are
too much with the present, the local, and the temporary. The
pupils of our eyes get so contracted with the minute little tasks we
are upon that we have lost the larger outlook and the longer vision.
But no man can afford to neglect his visions! Every man must
have his prospecting hill-tops; just as the draughtsman and engraver
are bidden to get long views of mountain and ocean to correct the
danger to their eyesight. Your digging and delving and sapping
and mining, my brother, are very exhausting; you grow weary,
dispirited, nauseated; your soul, like your body, wants its seaside
week-ends, its breath of the mountains, its glimpses of the great
ocean which can make you—
Smile to see God's greatness
Flow around your incompleteness,
Round your restlessness His rest. |
Your labouring spirit needs its mountain-tops, its eye-widening,
distant landscapes, and its whispering vistas of the future.
Think of it: Christ must not be left to face the dread tragedy of
the Crucifixion unassisted; He must not go from the streets
and lanes of Jerusalem and the sins and sorrows of His fellow men to
His great effort; it would be too depressing. He must have the
fine vantage-point of the Transfiguration from which to take His
first steady view of the 'decease which He should accomplish at
Jerusalem'; it was a different thing from those radiant heights, and
when the struggle came He 'endured because of the joy that had been
set before Him.'
We want to take our souls to the hills, my brothers, to let
them stand on life's high places and breathe the larger air.
Down in the stokeholes of the ship of life the air is thin and
vitiated, and our eye-pupils take on contractions, our soul's lungs
gasp and wheeze, and our faith is wellnigh asphyxiated; we want to
go on deck sometimes to get full lungs, buoyant spirits, and
brighter eyes. In greater things and little we are like Dr. Reich's
Frenchman, who said he had lots of patience, but could not keep it
long. We want more vision, a wider outlook, farther horizons,
and a serener atmosphere. We want more atmosphere in our
committee-rooms—in more senses than one; we want space, breadth,
God's pure ozone as well for the soul as the body; above all, we
want to remember that we are natives of the heights. Our
narrownesses, our jealousies, our puling, sectarian rivalries, are
born of the benumbing, earth-poisoned air. We must get higher,
into the free atmosphere and the fuller sunlight.
One thing more. If we get our wider vision it will
correct for ever our peddling, belittling views of things, which
are, after all, the parents of our fretfulness and despondency.
Once get a glance of the far-reaching ground-plan, and our wee
little sub-sections of work will assume their proper proportions.
You can stay in the house or stew in the office until the little
things bulk out enormously, and the grasshopper becomes a burden.
After all, we are not exactly on the head-quarters staff of the
armies of the Lord. We are privates, most of us, in one of the
lowlier foot regiments. The private's business is not with the
great, slow-working plan of campaign, slow-working campaign with
drill and sentry-go and unquestioning obedience. The best
thing for the private soldier, and for his leader, too, is for him
to make the very most of himself. The finest thing he can do
is to become an ideal private, and his chief business is his own
development and perfection. The campaign is chiefly important
to him for what it will make of him—the skill, experience, strength,
and agility he will acquire. We cannot know much about the
when and the where and how of it all; our chief concern is the
struggle. What we get we get out of the struggle, and our
chief business is profit and success through that. Listen: I
am quoting, not a theologian, but a novelist—James Lane Allen, the
author of The Choir Invisible, &c.:
'Happy ye, whether the waiting be
for short time or long, if only it bring the struggle.
One sure reward have we, though we have none else—the struggle.
The marshalling to the front of rightful forces—will, effort,
endurance, devotion the putting resolutely back of forces wrongful
the hardening of all that is soft within us, the softening of all
that is hard, until out of the hardening and the softening results
the better tempering of the soul's metal.'
Don't you see? That is the point with which St. James
commenced this Epistle—patience. The present, immediate
business is the making of the army, for me the making of one private
soldier. If in the toiling and the waiting and the quiet
endurance we can grow grit, develop courage and perseverance, and
get our souls filled with heaven's exhilarating ozone of faith, our
brains fired with the vision of God and the great future, then we
shall 'count it all joy when we fall into divers temptations'; then
with buoyant hearts and dancing eyes we shall hug our crosses, glory
in tribulations, and sing, with the great Tennyson:
Not in vain the distance beacons.
Forward, forward, let us range,
Let the great world spin for ever down the ringing
grooves of change.
Through the shadow of the globe we sweep into the
younger day.
Better fifty years of Europe than a cycle of Cathay. |
* From Christian World Pulpit, by permission
of the editor.
XVIII.
SWEARING
But above all things, my brethren, swear not, &c.—JAS.
V. 12.
SINS of speech,
minor vices in the modern code, are remarkably prominent in this
Epistle; this is the third time at least that St. James has referred
to them. Why? When we come to look into the matter it
turns out to be in part a racial peculiarity, something that
pertained to the loquacious, demonstrative Oriental, but has no
application to wordless Teutonic races like ourselves. It was
an outcome, moreover, of Pagan polytheism, and its multiplicity of
heathen deities, and we are monotheists. The argument may be
true, but the inference is not. We have not the picturesque
profusion of language to which Eastern nations are prone, and our
belief in one only God whose name is to be treated reverently has
eliminated that particular form of evil. Yes, but no one who
knows society at the present day will contend that the vice has
ceased to be; one rather wonders whether it was ever more
disgracefully prevalent. If writers on public manners are to
be believed, it is one of the commonest and most discreditable vices
of the day, and any one who travels by train or tram, or walks the
streets and mixes with men, will know, to his pain, that the
ordinary language of great masses of his fellow creatures is of the
most revolting character. How many places are there into which
decent men cannot take their wives or daughters, solely because of
the language they might hear! If it is too vile for our women,
it is too vile for men, and the sooner men make a public conscience
of the growing scandal the better it will be for us all. We
are notoriously a short-spoken, wordless people; and yet the
so-called 'gabbling' foreigner is thinking of a perfection of
vituperative and blasphemous language he can never hope to rival
when he talks of 'swearing like an Englishman.' Unpleasant
though the subject is, it has reached such proportions among us as
to be a national reproach, and there are large classes for whom
education seems to have done little save provide them with a larger
and more varied vocabulary of blasphemy. And as for its being
a question for one sex only, a little reflection would show that it
is a woman's question, and most of all a young people's affair.
One cannot but admire the tender scrupulosity of the Quakers,
and it would be well if the whole country could catch some of their
spirit. At the same time, they are undoubtedly wrong in the
matter of taking the legal oath. The patriarchs and prophets,
Christ and His apostles, all took oaths, and the Almighty is
represented again and again as taking them. The kind of thing
condemned in the text, and in twenty other places in Scripture, is
forbidden because it is the making common of a sacred thing; the
frequency and flippancy of its needless use tending to weaken and
degrade the real oath. As Philo said, 'False swearing
naturally springs out of much swearing,' whereas religious duty and
natural necessity alike require that the sanctity of a solemn oath
shall be preserved and strengthened as much as possible. But
these Jews were Orientals, naturally voluble and prone to
figurative, high-sounding phraseology and gesticulation. Many
of them lived in the bottle-neck of the world, at the grand junction
of the world's highways, and caught much of the high-falutin,
extravagant language peculiar to the people with whom they traded.
On our English Exchanges transactions involving thousands of pounds
are every day completed with a yea or a nay; your real Oriental
cannot buy a box of matches without a twenty-minutes' argument.
Here a row of houses is disposed of with a nod, but you can spend a
whole morning bargaining for a tooth-brush in an Eastern bazaar, or
purchasing a flower from a Roman flower-girl. Russell Lowell
has finely hit off this foible in his 'Oriental Apologue':
Each with unwonted zeal the other
scouted,
Put his spurred hobby through its every pace;
Sometimes they keep it purposely at bay,
Then let it slip to be again pursuing it;
They drone it, groan it, whisper it, and shout it,
Refute it, flout it, swear to't, prove it, doubt it. |
Then if the Oriental is so eloquent and vociferous in the
smallest matters, there is little wonder that his words became many
and mighty when he was in trouble. That is what St. James is
alluding to here. He is dealing with the many persecutions of
these early saints, and exhorting them, as we have seen, to patience
and self-repression. But one danger suggests another. No
Eastern seems to understand self-control in excitement: he cannot
take things lying down, and knows nothing of our Northern philosophy
of grinning and bearing, of consuming his own smoke. He lifts
up his voice on high, gives vent to his feelings in over-wrought,
inflammable language. We have to remember their professional
mourners, their appointed weeping-places and wailing-courts; and the
depth of their sorrow and the strength of their appeal for sympathy
were measured by the extravagance of their language and the
intensity of their invective.
Think of the language of the Imprecatory Psalms, and the
terrible expressions of the Lamentations of Jeremiah and some of the
minor prophets. Loose and reckless in speech at the best of
times, and given to paroxysms of anguish on the slightest grounds,
imagine the things that would rise to their lips, and the wild,
whirling words they would pour out when goaded and maddened by
incessant persecution! We have also to remember that these
Jews of the Dispersion were, for the most part, of the lower orders,
and abroad for purposes of trade. The people they dealt with
were of many nations and races, and had multitudes of deities to
whom they could appeal to substantiate their words. Give an
Italian beggar-woman a halfpenny, and she will invoke half the
saints of the calendar to bless you; and it would appear that even
in English cattle-markets to-day, where the code of business
procedure was settled by the first cattle-dealers—the gipsies—you
cannot buy a sheep without certain mysterious gesticulations and
smitings of the hand.
These Jews of the Dispersion dealt every day with men who
invoked at each sentence Jove, Apollo, Venus, Mithras, and all the
multitudinous pantheon of paganism. A Jew could not allow
himself to be outdone in invocation by a mere heathen, and so
acquired a constant and unseemly dexterity in the use of the divine
name to clinch his bargains. But there was a much subtler form
of temptation: they were constantly being offered escape from
persecution if they would invoke a heathen deity. Well, an
idol was nothing—a bit of stone or wood; and therefore, to swear by
an idol was nothing. Besides, they were Jews; they had been
taught, all their lives, certain clever, perfectly innocent tricks
by which they might swear without perjuring themselves. Rabbi
Akiba, one of their great authorities, had taught them that they
might swear with their lips but annul it in their hearts; and Jesus
Christ had to expose this Jesuitical hypocrisy in the Sermon on the
Mount. And so, under the pressure of persecution, and the
miserable casuistical sophistry that obtained among them, they were
encouraged to evasiveness and falsehood, which were outrages to
common sense, searing-irons to conscience, and blasts of death to
spiritual life.
Persons who do not see that the free and familiar use of the
divine name is offensive may be left to themselves, though all the
reasons for the prohibition may not be apparent at once. Look
at it! There runs through the Bible a red thread of references
to the significance of names, which is so much Greek to us, but to
the Eastern it meant much. The Jew is said never to have known
the real name of his God at all! The High-priest spoke it once
a year, but even to-day we are by no means sure what it was.
Jehovah, Jahveh, are little more than guesses. The Hebrew
usually referred to his Maker by one of his minor titles.
Throughout the whole of the Scriptures an emphasis is placed on sins
of speech which strikes us oddly. Of the Ten Commandments,
made to cover the whole of human life and conduct, two have to do
with sins of the lips. The very first petition in the
world-used Lord's Prayer is, 'Hallowed be Thy name.' The
Sermon on the Mount, admittedly the great charter of Christian
teaching, contains several passages about abuses of speech, and one
whole paragraph which is almost word for word an amplification of
the text before us. If not the first, this Epistle is one of
the first, bits of the New Testament the world saw; there are more
direct quotations from Jesus Christ in it than in the whole of St.
Paul's writings. And four times in this short letter St. James
refers to sins of the tongue.
The Epistle contains some strong writing, and leads us into
the profoundest questions of the spiritual life; and yet when he
comes to the text St. James commences, 'Above all, my
brethren.' And this is no oracular command enjoined upon us
arbitrarily; it appeals to our deepest instincts, and has its
rationale in the roots of things. A flippant oath offends,
shocks, insults us; and public form, the laws of good taste and
manners, condemn it as strongly as religion does. No man,
thank God, in these days dare utter his foulness in decent society.
Why, then, refer to it? Because it is still frightfully
common; because there are whole sections of society in which the
ever-blessed name is dragged into every sentence and made to link
itself with the obscenest utterances of human lips. Because we
are Christians, altruists, philanthropists, zealots of brotherhood,
and cannot be indifferent to the abasement and self-defilement of
even the lowliest of our fellow mortals. But there is another
reason. We are dependent, in our intercourse with each other
and our knowledge of truth, on words; and, as we cannot tolerate the
abuse of our standards of weight and measurement, so neither is it
to be endured that our language should be so depraved and defiled.
But there is in society to-day—in much that passes for decent
society—a looseness in the use of words which is fast emptying them
of their meaning and impoverishing and degrading our common speech.
It may be worth while to consider how this discreditable
abuse comes about. Most human languages seem to be curiously
incomplete, unequal to the demands made upon them. There come
to men occasions of surprise, sudden excitement, of great joy or
sorrow, and in those moments we all experience an embarrassing lack
of adequate expletives; our interjectional vocabulary is soon
exhausted, and we have to make exclamations for ourselves.
You can count the standard interjections of the English
language on your finger-ends, and so we all have to invent our own.
It is a suggestive reflection on the state of our minds when these
little crises produce profanities. Trench and others have
shown us that the history, poetry, and religion of a race are
fossilized in its language: if that be so the actual conversation of
multitudes amongst us betrays a woeful national dishonour. And
then most people are but imperfectly educated, and their command of
their mother-tongue is exceedingly limited. Our best
dictionaries give us a choice of some six hundred thousand words,
but most of us use less than two thousand. To some filthy
oaths fill up the hiatuses in their speech, and advertise their
ignorance of their mother-tongue. Emerson has pointed out that
uneducated men and women talk vehemently and in superlatives, and we
must all have observed that simple people usually express themselves
in words much too large for their thoughts. Moderate and
restrained language is everywhere the hallmark of culture, and the
blasphemies that so copiously interlard common speech are simply
advertisements of ignorance and vulgarity. Moreover, we all
have avid ears for new phrases and happy turns of expression, but
instead of thus enriching our speech we too often have to eke it out
with extravagant vulgarisms and unseemly oaths. Go to a county
cricket-match, and you will hear the various points of the game
discussed in the very terminology of that morning's paper; whilst
political catchwords, Scripture quotations, and snatches of
music-hall songs are being imported into common conversation every
day we live. Orientals were driven, by the poverty of their
verbal resources, to the use of oaths that were coined by long-dead
ancestors, and invoked every day old pagan deities that have not
been recognized save in this opprobrious manner for thousands of
years.
Nowhere is the fact of our great fall more patent than in the
meanness and squalidness of our ordinary speech. 'The trail of
the serpent is over it all,' and though decent people shun the
vulgarity of blasphemy, it is disgracefully common amongst us, and
the fact that it so grossly offends the public ear and pollutes the
mouths and minds of such large numbers is a standing dishonour to
the 'name that is above every name,' and should unite all sensitive
and earnest Christians in resolute, persistent effort to put it
down.
We cannot put it down; it is a matter of personal liberty,
and we have no right to interfere? But the people who are most
guilty of this vulgar vice are the very ones who are most fiercely
repudiating your doctrine of non-interference, and are telling us
every day that we ought to interfere with them, and that we have a
responsibility for them! We must interfere with their work,
their wages, their homes, their children, their political rights,
their very food and clothing. Very well: 'You cannot eat your
cake and have it'! you cannot insist on brotherhood on one side
only. If it binds me, it binds my neighbour also; if I am to
consider him, by the same rule he must consider me. It may be
true that we cannot make people moral by Act of Parliament or by
pulpit fulmination; but there is something in public life that is
stronger than Acts of Parliament or pulpit oratory, and that is what
we call good form, the law of good taste. Again and again in
English history it has been demonstrated that what neither good laws
nor plain teaching could suppress public form and good taste have
put down, and there surely was never greater need than in this
matter. We are the makers of public sentiment; that sort of
thing works from the top downwards, and not the other way.
It is beautiful to note the ever-increasing reticence of
decent people on all the deeper questions; it is delightful to note
how the average respectable man will resort to any circumlocution
rather than, unnecessarily, drag the divine name into common
conversation and yet we are all aware that the defilement and
degradation of that name is so common amongst large masses of our
fellows that it has almost ceased to be recognized as anything
offensive at all. This is said to be largely a matter of
education. Exactly! and that is an additional reason why this
country should get done as soon as possible with its miserable
educational squabbles.
We sing and talk much in holy places about a certain
ineffable name. It is carved on our hearts and bound up with
our dearest hopes. Is it tolerable that that name should come
to be associated with ribald and obscene speech, and that our own
and our children's ears should be polluted by strings of brutal
profanity? We have a solemn duty, and it is high time we made
a conscience on the matter. 'My name is blasphemed among the
Gentiles through you.' The honour of God, the fair fame of
Jesus Christ, are in our keeping; and it behoves us, by hastening
better education, by persuasion, example, reproof, and stern
repression, to put this scandalous thing down.
We hear much in these days about the rights of women.
By all means! If there is anything that will make them better
wives, mothers, daughters, let them have it. But some of them
are doing the other sex a strange disservice. They are
disillusioning them. Most honest men imagine already that
their women are better than themselves; that their mothers, wives,
and fair daughters are their superiors in all the highest things.
Let women be sure that in straining after the shadow they are not
missing the substance! Take the subject we are discussing.
Women are the springs of courtesy, the makers and upholders of
social codes, the referees of taste, and absolute law-givers in form
and good manners. Is not the divine name as dear to women as
to men? and is not the common language of our streets and public
places a reproach to our civilization and a dishonour to our
Christianity? And does any one doubt that if the women of the
country would set their faces against this fearful vice they could
exterminate it?
One thing more. This Epistle of James does not provide
many topics especially for the young, but here is one that is
peculiarly theirs. Respectable young people do not meet with
this kind of thing in their homes, but let them be careful what sort
of company they keep! Language is an index of character: your
ears are perfectly reliable danger-signals, and when they are
offended it is safest to flee. But the young have their own
peculiar temptation. If not absolutely coarse, most young men
have a sneaking fondness for slang, and are caught by picturesque
and novel phraseology. A person of graphic vocabulary is, all
things else being equal, always attractive. Consequently there
is always the temptation to dangerous looseness of language, which,
though it fall short of actual profanity, is as polluting and
defiling as mud. There is much more in the morality of
language than appears. Old Montaigne, certainly not a
religious teacher, said once that most of the occasions of this
world's troubles were grammatical. Beware of the loose
speaker! Beware of veiled indecencies and the dastardly double
entendre. Beware of the man who has so little confidence in
his own word that he has to back it with oaths. Extravagant
language indicates either an empty head or a deceitful heart, or
both. Beware of the loquacious talker. He who takes many
oaths will presently take false ones. Adjectives, which we all
so greatly affect, do not, as a rule, strengthen, but weaken
language. If we speak the divine name with bated breath, if
our culture makes us measure our words and shun everything
exaggerated and profane, it cannot be a matter of indifference to us
that public habits on this question are so repulsive. It
should be put down; neither measure nor mercy should be extended to
it. It is not only a gross violation of good taste, but, what
is more serious, a glaring outrage to God. 'Therefore let your
yea be yea, and your nay, nay, lest ye fall into condemnation.'
XIX.
PRAYER
Is any among you suffering? let him pray, &c.—JAS,
V. 13, 14.
WHATEVER else St.
James was, he was by common consent practical, and here is this
practical man's practical teaching on that most important of
subjects—prayer.
But there are two small preliminary points. 'Let him send for the
elders of the church'—'send for!' The ministers who know most of
their flocks, and have the highest reputation for pastoral
visitation, testify that, though they do find out their sick, they
have to do it for themselves, or it is not done at all. Hearers can
do no greater kindness to a minister than to notify him of cases of
sickness, and no greater injustice than to blame him if he has not
been informed.
But the minister is 'The Sky Pilot,' the 'Soul Doctor.' Troubles of
the mind and spirit are his speciality; his whole life is devoted to
the study of them. And they are common enough: we all agree also
that they are more trying than physical ailments and more difficult
to deal with. There are men and women everywhere who are carrying
secret sorrows it would be an infinite relief to pour into
sympathetic ears, apart altogether from the question of any
assistance they might get. And yet the practice is singularly
uncommon. Ministers do get to know about these things, but, for the
most part, they have to take delicacy in both hands and almost force
themselves upon their friends. We do not take lectures on materia
medica when we are ill; we desire a physician to diagnose our
own personal condition and need; and so sermons are not the only,
and ought not to be the chief, means whereby the pastor can serve
his flock. This is where the more private means of grace come in,
and this is why, also, the Confessional appeals so strongly to all
the Latin races. Notwithstanding all the things about that
institution which we detest, it will not die out; its ideal is
noble, and it has its raison d'être in the profoundest needs
of the soul. Every true minister carries about with him a chronic
disappointment that his people make so little use of him in the
matters and at the times when he could help them most. But now to
our subject.
All religion is, in essence and at bottom, personal. Wider than all
sects, deeper than all creeds, and nearer than all churches, it is
fundamentally a question of the relation of the individual soul to
its Maker. To contradict that is to be given away by one's own
nature. If a key may be said to belong to the lock it will fit, so
man is made for God. The medium of this highest of intercourses is
prayer. All the great religions of the world, true and false, have
insisted on prayer. The new humanistic sciences, now so popular, are
teaching us that man has always prayed. As far back as we can go
down the ages, when man was a savage and but one remove from an
animal, not understanding even his closest relationships to his
kind, he prayed. Whenever men are thrown off their guard and back on
naked realities; when they have got out of their depth, and the
world has been too much for them, they have prayed. Even the man of
science, overborne by unmanageable masses of undigested knowledge
and driven to Agnosticism or worse, though he has denied the
efficacy, has acknowledged the necessity of prayer, and longed for
the simplicity that could find rest in supplication. If man was not
made to pray, then he has no more use for some of his faculties than
a deaf man has for a telephone. There is that in man which has no
outlet except upward; there are functions and faculties, aspirations
and emotions, which have no object but the divine. The vast, many-manualed
organ of man's nature is a mere harmonium until God touches the
keyboard. The faster we grow, the wider we broaden, the more
profoundly we deepen, the more imperious and insatiable becomes the
instinct that demands God and the intercourse of the Divine. As
Professor James says: 'We pray simply because we cannot help
praying. It seems probable, in spite of all that science says to the
contrary, that man will continue to pray to the end of time.'
Let us ask ourselves a question. If the scientists are right, and
man emerges from the animal, what was there in his earliest
condition to suggest to him so strange an act as prayer? But he did
pray. We know something of the world and human nature, what they are
and how absorbingly they crowd in upon us. We think it desperate
work to keep the spiritual alive in the world and in ourselves
to-day in spite of all the intellectual and spiritual advantages we
have attained. What must have been the power of that same world on
the primitive man, with his giant lusts and his gross animal nature?
what was there in his surroundings, at his stage of development, to
induce so strange a practice as prayer? But he did pray. And if the
catastrophe depicted in the novel When it was Dark were actually
to happen, men would still lift up holy hands to God. But more: if
men never prayed before they would begin to do so now. Life does not
grow simpler, nor its problems fewer or less confounding. As the
mind grows, the world grows with it. The rugged, craggy mountains we
climb turn out, when we reach their summits, to be mere hillocks
that reveal to us the vast towering peaks still to be scaled.
Whether humanity ever needed a guide before or not, it needs one
now. Hitherto it has been the solitary wrestler, clinging to the
skirts of Omnipotence, who has cried out at the majesty and mystery
of life; but now, with worlds of new and awful problems confronting
us and countless others coming rushing towards us faster than we can
count, the politician in his council-chamber, the scientist in his
laboratory, the reformer with his sheaves of staggering statistics,
the philanthropist with his Socialism, and the Christian teacher
with his problems of life and destiny, are all pausing, in
breathless amazement, to cry, 'Who is sufficient for all these
things?' To-day the narrowest questions are discovering widening
issues and boundless horizons; we have just got light enough to see
the dim margins of future possibilities, and the faster we realize
our greatness the more swiftly is the fact borne in upon us that we
must have higher assistance to enable us to achieve our destiny. It
has been said, with deep insight, that if there were no God we
should have to invent one, and certain is it that the more we think
and feel the faster we grow, and the more we come to understand how
profound and imperious is the demand for prayer.
For what are men better than sheep or
goats,
That nourish a blind life within the brain,
If, knowing God, they lift not hands of prayer
Both for themselves and those who call them friend?
For so the whole round earth is every way
Bound by gold chains about the feet of God. |
But now comes our difficulty.
With the problems of life increasing every day both in numbers and
complexity, and with our conceptions of God growing clearer and more
intimate, the practice of prayer is not increasing.
The more reason our circumstances find us for prayer, the less we
pray. Why is this? Whenever a great working theory of life gets
disturbed we are affected in two totally different ways. The more
earnest and intensely-minded of us struggle with the problem until
we have got new ground upon which to rest; but the majority, who are
less earnest, and perhaps more pre-occupied, perceiving that
something is wrong, let slip the old moorings without taking the
trouble to find new ones; and so we drift. In the matter of prayer
we have realized that the old positions are no longer tenable, but,
not having either time or inclination to take the trouble necessary
to find new ones, we have lapsed into negligence, with the mistaken
notion at the bottom of our minds that those who have raised the
difficulties, and thus unsettled our faith, are somehow responsible
for our unsatisfactory position. We have surrendered the old literal
theory of prayer that God gives us precisely the thing we ask for,
but we have not taken the trouble to get any new one in its place. We have come to see that for God literally to answer every
short-sighted petition addressed to Him would introduce confusion
and disaster into the world, and make things worse than they are. But beyond that, we have just let the question drift. We have more
need of prayer than men ever had, but we have lost faith in its
practical efficacy. Take a common example. A preacher chooses a
text, such as the one before us, about which there does not seem to
be the least ambiguity, and which states, in precise terms, the
literal answer of prayer in the most definite, inescapable way. He
endorses the text just as it stands, and then proceeds to take all
the reality out of it. It would not be right for God to give us what
would not be good for us, and He knows better than we. God may not
give us the thing we ask for, but something better; not money to pay
the rent, which is what I was seeking, but patience to wait and work
until I can earn it myself. Or—and this at the present moment is the
popular theory—God influences and changes my mind, so that I no
longer want the rent paid, but prefer to be blessed in my own soul. The real result of prayer, in fact, is not any change in the mind of
God, but the bringing of my own mind to do without the things I was
desiring! That sounds plausible, but all the same most of us are
disappointed. The explanation saves the situation as far as God is
concerned, but all the same it woefully disappoints us and takes all
definiteness and substance out of Scripture promises, and so faith
in prayer receives a serious blow. And no wonder! Any explanation of
the Scriptures that simply explains them away is disrespectful to
human intelligence and dishonouring to God. God can take care of
Himself, and so also can the Bible: they are both well able; and
man's attempts to defend them often do more harm than good. But if
the Bible contains no encouragement for men to expect answers to
prayers for temporal blessings, then it ought to have been
differently written. We cannot close our eyes to the grave
difficulties of the literal interpretation theory; Mr. Blatchford
has made fine play with it. It is perfectly true also that the
intelligent suppliant will become more careful of his words to God
as his mind grows, and will ever insist, 'Nevertheless, not as I
will, but as Thou wilt.' At the same time, if the Bible does not
encourage men to bring any and every care to God with the
expectation of a response, then words have lost their meaning, and
the Bible is mere poetry. It would be a pitiful thing if our
increasing knowledge and growing intelligence should result in
snatching from our hands our most indispensable spiritual weapon, if
our closer view of the well of salvation should but reveal to us
that its bucket is a sieve. It may well be that, the more we
understand of God, the world, and ourselves, the more reason we
shall find for carefulness and discrimination in the objects for
which we pray, and the more enlightened we become the less we shall
want to interfere with the order of the divine Providence: but that
is a very different thing from altering the basis of prayer itself. Our theory of prayer is based on the nature, character, and word of
God, and nothing that impugns these can be admitted for a moment,
'Let God be true, and every man a liar.'
No, no! the great reason for the decay of prayer, as far as there is
such a thing, lies deeper than that. It is a special symptom of a
general decline: we lose faith in prayer just as we lose spiritual
life. We have not lost spiritual life because we have had our faith
in the efficacy of prayer shaken, but we have lost our faith in
prayer because our spiritual life has declined. We have not become
worldly because we have ceased to pray, but we have ceased to pray
because we have become slack and earthy.
The Word of God is to stand: the explicit pledges He has given in a
hundred places to respond to our requests are to be taken at their
face value, to apply to every necessity of man's many-sided nature
and every exigency of his complicated life. But because God does not
change and His Word is inviolable and not to be watered down, that
does not say that man is not to change, that he is to stand still
and not improve. Man cannot stand still! His growth is involved in
his very life; he must advance or perish. And as he grows he
changes. His standards of value alter; the things he once desired no
longer satisfy; he is always wanting something better. A man gives
his little daughter a doll—sometimes without even being asked for
it; but if his twenty-year-old daughter asked for such a thing he
would give her—a piece of his mind. Why? because he had changed and
loved her less? No, but because she had grown, and the thing that
was fitting for her when she was six is ridiculous now and would
make her ridiculous.
So, is man to grow in everything except his religion? Is he to
improve in everything except towards God? Are all his relations to
change except his primary and fundamental one? Are not our growth
and advancement vouchsafed to us, above all things else, to improve
us in our approach to the Heavenly Father, and to give us more power
with Him? Consider how God has dealt with us on this grave
question. In the first thousand years of Bible story all the prayers
were prayers for temporal blessings, and those prayers were
answered. But gradually, as the race grew and got more enlightened,
spiritual desires began to force themselves to the front. Then they
became slowly more and more prominent, and eventually earthly
desires took second place until, as was inevitable, temporary
objects almost dropped out. The world's model prayer only contains
one petition for temporal things, and that is general and not
particular. There are floating about the world of Bible literature
certain phrases called 'Agrapha,' that is, unauthorized quotations
of the sayings of the Christ, not found in the Gospels. St. Paul and
others alluded to them, and here is one, guaranteed to us by the
great Origen. 'Ask for the great things, and the little things shall
be added; ask the heavenly, and the earthly shall be added.' Which,
after all, is but a slight paraphrase of the Saviour's statement in
St. Matthew: 'Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His
righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.' Does
that mean that temporal things are not to be asked for? No, it means
that, compared with the high interests of the spiritual life, these
are trifles; and that, as we grow and the spiritual life becomes
predominant, these will naturally bulk less largely in our thoughts
and therefore in our supplications; that, to both God and ourselves,
our spiritual concerns are, as compared with the other, so important
that the other may almost be taken for granted.
It would not trouble our friend to give Miss Twenty that doll, but
it would woefully disappoint him; and, if she seemed anxious for it
and tearful, he would say, 'I don't begrudge you the paltry doll,
but ask me for something better, costlier, something fitting your
age and your father's love.' So God must be insufferably weary of
the pettishness, the childish earthiness of most of our requests to
Him, and must be incessantly saying, 'Why don't they ask Me for
something worthier of them and worthier of My gifts?' It is a
serious thing to say, but men are never meaner than when they pray,
and there was the whole story of human littleness and earthiness in
the Saviour's pathetic complaint: 'Hitherto have ye asked nothing in
My name: ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be fulfilled.' Is this too difficult for ordinary mortals? are you feeling that you
are being pushed to heights you cannot hold? Then take a quotation
from Emerson, a modern teacher:
'In what prayers do men allow themselves! That which we call a holy
office is not so much as brave or manly. Prayer that craves a
particular commodity—anything less than the all-good—is vicious. Prayer is the contemplation of the facts of life from its highest
point of view, but prayer as a means to effect a private end is
meanness and theft.'
We cannot endorse a position like that exactly, but the truth lies
under it. Our only real prayers, alas! are prayers for earthly good;
we can be earnest and explicit enough for some worldly need, but are
apt to be vague and indefinite about the infinitely higher things.
All the same, we must not make the opposite mistake. Man is a
complicated creature; every part of him affects every other part,
and even the earthliest anxieties have effects upon our highest
nature.
Worldly cares are the most palpable and prominent things of life to
most of us, and ramify into the deepest recesses of our being; and
to exclude them from our prayers is to mock our sternest necessities
and make God's Word a fable.
We live in truly terrible times; how terrible those who are in them
cannot understand. But when historic distance shall have given
historic perspective to us, it is safe to prophesy that it will be
seen that, in merely holding our own amid such perils, we have done
well for the Church, for the world, and for God. The changes that
are taking place and coming in men's views about God, Providence,
the nature and authority of the Scriptures, the relation of man to
his fellow man, our increasing knowledge of science and our
increasing sensitiveness to the reign of law; above all, the
epoch-making strides in our knowledge of the origin, nature, and
powers of man,--are all affecting us, more than we are aware, as the
days go by. But there is nothing in these things to give reason for
ceasing to pray; rather we see in each increasing demand for it. If
in the past we have blundered so much and failed so often, are not
the greater and ever-greatening problems before us to-day admonitory
warnings of our insufficiency and strongest incentives to
prayerfulness? God is growing before our eyes every day, the world
is flooding us with new marvels and confronting us with awful tasks
every hour we breathe. Life is becoming more serious, more
responsible, more complicated and fascinating every moment. Is this
a time for letting go our old anchors, for slipping our hold on God? If our limited and ignorant ancestors were driven by the pressure of
life to break an outlet to the Eternal, how much more we? In the
midst of the most marvellous, most confounding, most
incomprehensible of ages, our first grand necessity is a fast grip
of God. He is waiting for us, clamouring to us to have a chance of
helping us:
Speak to Him thou, for He hears, and
spirit with spirit can meet;
Closer is He than breathing, and nearer than hands and
feet. |
XX.
THE LIMITATIONS OF SYMPATHY
My brethren, if any among you do err from the
truth, and one convert him; let him know, that he which converteth a
sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death, and
shall cover a multitude of sins.
JAS.
V. 20.
ST.
JAMES finishes with
that! There is no last greeting, no formal conclusion, no
benediction; short and sharp he breaks off his message and leaves
these last words ringing in our ears. It was not a trick of
style, it was deliberate and intentional; it was the abruptness of
emphasis, and was left like that of set purpose to heighten the
effect. St. James evidently intended that his last words
should be remembered, whatever else was forgotten.
Look at the whole passage from verse thirteen.
The Epistle was written towards the close of that wonderful
communal period when, in the first gush of love, the early
Christians were so much to each other that 'no one thought the
things which he possessed were his own, but they had all things
common.' It was an ideal condition, a glimpse of the Golden
Age, and the writer desires as far as possible to perpetuate it.
He takes a typical case. One of their number is ill; being
sick, he either knows or thinks that his illness is the result of
some sin—most people thought so in those fatalistic times, and many
secretly do so still. It often is so; and when it is not, a
tender conscience, unusually active in sickness, makes it appear so.
Such a man is not to brood and mope and consume himself in useless
torture. He is a member of a wonderful brotherhood; he belongs
to the closest club on earth. He is to send for his friends,
for the elders and fellow disciples, and unburden his mind, so as to
get their sympathy, help, and prayers. He is to get rid of
that which is on his mind as the first step towards physical
recovery. And if he does so, those whose prayers and sympathy
have helped him have done most brotherly and Christ-like work, for
'Let him know, that he which turneth a sinner from the error of his
way saveth a soul from death, and covereth a multitude of sins.'
But, turning the light of this gracious teaching round upon
ourselves, we encounter a very curious and arresting thing.
Humanity, sympathy, fellow feeling has been growing and deepening in
mankind ever since St. James's time; to-day it is the dominant and
most popular sentiment of the race. And where Christian
teaching is strongest and fullest, that sentiment is the most
prevalent. There are multitudes of godly men and women so full
of it that they pine and ache for some outlet, for real cases of
need which they might succour. The average minister can
usually get all he needs for a genuine case of distress. The
feeling is so strong that men and women are every day making outlets
for themselves and setting up beautiful little philanthropies, more
complimentary perhaps to their hearts than their heads, but such as
the angels smile upon. The striking prominence given in these
days to social and economic questions is not due so much to the fact
that the conditions of life are so much worse than they were, but
because there is such a quickened and intensified human sympathy
that men and women cannot endure that these things shall continue.
And yet—here is the ridiculous anomaly, here our absurd and
eccentric human inconsistency comes in—such cases as St. James
supposes are as common now as they were then; sickness comes to us
all in turn, mental trouble is commoner even than physical.
There are more people with aching hearts than aching bodies, and not
a few with both. And yet if such a thing as is supposed by St.
James occurred to any decent person, the procedure recommended by
the writer would not be so much as thought of. Do people, men
or women who are in trouble either mental or bodily send, in these
days, for the elders of the church? It is about the last thing
that would be suggested.
We belong to the dour, stolid, speechless English, who
'consume their own smoke,' 'keep themselves to themselves,' 'grin
and bear it,' and who take care above all things not to whine and
complain about matters. And if the elders of the church came
to such, sent for or not, would there be any unburdening of the
mind? The patient would make light of his sickness, apologize
for it, pass it off with a joke about the liver, and hasten to talk
to his visitors about something that would be interesting to them.
It is very English, very manly, very heroic, maybe, but it is
terribly expensive, altogether unnecessary, and shuts to many a
brooding, self-consuming soul the last door of hope. And a
state of society which makes such self-suppression necessary, to say
the least of it, leaves much to be desired.
We are not going about carrying our hearts on our sleeves and
groaning about every little thing that turns up! Other people
have their sorrows, and we are not going to add to them; we are
going to take the rough and smooth together and play the man!
It is very English, very true and manly, and for the most part
wholly commendable; but at the same time there are innumerable cases
in which it is cruel, wasteful, and terribly costly, and there must
be something sadly wrong in the conditions of society—society
abounding in precious sympathy and hungry for opportunity of
helpfulness —when honest men and over-driven women are compelled to
make a point of honour of carrying their burdens alone. Few of
us have any idea of the utter isolation and solitude men and women
are suffering in our large towns and flourishing suburbs. But
the poor and the destitute are not the only people who are miserable
and need sympathy. Friendlessness is as great a trouble as
homelessness, loneliness is as real a sorrow as poverty. There
is often as much need of sympathy in a hundred-a-year villa as there
is in a slum tenement. Our next-door neighbour may be needing
us just as much as that back-street widow, and the man in the next
pew may be pining for just such a word of cheery fellow feeling as
we give every day to the man in the street. Instances are
occurring constantly of friendly helpfulness that make one proud of
one's kind; and with sweet and tender pitifulness so abundant
amongst us it is a sad reproach that brains are giving way, health
is undermined, and hearts are breaking every day because of a
mistaken pride and reticence, begotten itself of isolation, that
will not speak, and an equally mistaken delicacy that dares not
intrude. With the spirit of Christ breeding a new gentleness
in us all, we are somehow not close enough together to encourage
mutual confidences, and the bonds of Christian brotherhood, made for
the very purpose, are failing of their object and being defrauded of
their express fruits by stupid pride and shyness on one side or the
other—or both. This, then, is our point. The teaching of
the text supposes a close relationship amongst all Christian people,
an intimate and private interest in one another, a knowledge of and
concern for each other, which would make the duties enjoined in
these final words of the Epistle easy, natural, and inevitable.
We all have plenty of trouble at one time or another, plenty of need
of sympathy and brotherly help; and yet, whilst there is all this
beautiful sympathy manifesting itself in some directions, we
entirely overlook it in others.
Every great movement has its inevitable backwashes, and these
are sometimes so serious as to neutralize the effects of the
movement itself. What we are gaining in one direction we are
losing in another. For instance: we are all becoming
Socialists in these days, and we are all becoming less sociable; the
nearer we get together in our modern city life, the farther we are
from each other. We are taking more interest in our fellows in
the mass, but less in the individual; more in our neighbours
generally, and less in the man next door. Hospitality, that
most venerable and beautiful of social virtues, is not increasing.
English people, famous for it through all history, are losing their
good name. Scottish clannishness, the feeling that makes Scot
rally to Scot wherever they meet, is a wholly good thing, and
English independence is no adequate substitute for it. The
close fellowship and kindly, unobtrusive interest in each other, so
characteristic of Christians generally in the past, and particularly
of Methodists, is not growing, and we frequently do not know the
people who worship in the same sanctuary.
The city man dreams of going to live in the suburbs and
enjoying its freer, fuller, social life, and finds, when he gets
there, that there is less sociability than in the noisy street from
whence he came. The outsider hears much of the freemasonry and
camaraderie of the Free Churches, and discovers, when he
experiments, that it is a tradition of the Golden Age, and that Mrs.
Grundy is nowhere so almighty as in the suburban congregation.
In the times when towns were few and small, and squirearchy ruled
the land, there were many social evils of which we are now well rid;
all the same, in those bad old days old Sally Brown's rheumatism was
known up at the hall, and discussed at the vicarage; to-day, within
reach of a hundred such halls, Sally's disorder is only known at the
local dispensary, or is a secret locked up in the breast of the
relieving officer. There is more large, generous equality
amongst us than there ever was, and more healthy detestation of
classiness; and yet, by some means or other, there is less intimacy
and fewer of those interchanges of friendship than ever: and this in
spite of the fact that we have most of us more leisure, more
opportunities, and more means for the promotion of social
intercourse than we have had previously. It is the more social
religious institutions of Methodism that are the least popular
to-day, and which are giving our leaders most concern. And,
outside the churches, we do not any of us guess what vast numbers
there are who are suffering untold miseries from life's intolerable
loneliness. We know what life is at the present time—the
exacting nature of business life, and the terrible price a man has
to pay for missing a step in the hurried march; but we do not any of
us realize how mighty a corrective of wear and worry a gracious home
is, and how completely we have been saved from going under by the
genial, restorative influences of family and social consolations.
Do we ever ask ourselves how many there are about us who, for no
fault of their own, are debarred such comforts? That woman,
high-minded and pure, but with an unfaithful husband; that strong,
brave man, with his negligent or nagging wife; that couple,
suffering life's last hardest disappointment—disappointment in their
children; those lonely sisters, jealously guarding the pitiful
honour of father or brother long after it has ceased to exist; or
that man, patiently enduring the suspicion of business incompetence
because he is paying, with a beautiful self-sacrifice that would
cover him with honour were it known, another's debts. These
are the things that are going on about us every day we live—going on
amongst our neighbours, acquaintances, and friends. And all
the time our hearts are overflowing with a blessed sympathy for our
fellows which frets and fumes because it can find no outlet.
There was never so much lovely public sympathy as there is to-day,
but we are overlooking its private and personal application.
If a man be one of the 'unemployed,' an 'unskilled labourer' not
getting a 'living wage,' or working at some notably sweated
industry,' we are interested in him at once; but the mere fact that
he is poor or sick or half-starved does not appeal to us, and the
statement that he lives in the same street or worships at the same
sanctuary has no relevance whatever. We are excited about the
condition and sufferings of people who live in slums, but we do not
notice the whitening hair and dragging spirits of some of our own
relatives. We are urgent and emphatic about better homes and
brighter surroundings for back-street proletariates; but it does not
occur to us to ask Jones, our next-door neighbour, what it is that
has silenced his own infectious laugh, and why those premature
wrinkles have come so fast on his cheery face. Nay, if we keep
ourselves from injuring his credit and intensifying his difficulties
by whispering that there must be a screw loose somewhere about
Jones, because we happen to know that he had no summer holiday and
is still wearing his winter clothes, we think we do very well.
We shake our heads and raise our eyebrows when we hear that poor
Jones has taken to drink, but we don't think it any part of our
business to inquire what commercial or domestic trouble it is that
has saddened him, or what heroic burden it is that is crushing out
the sweetness of life for him.
We all read the newspapers, and must all have noticed a
significant increase of suicides amongst us. Every day brings
a fresh and terrible crop, and we are informed that our asylums were
never so full as they are at present. It would be idle to say
that any one cause brings these melancholy things about; the reasons
are manifold and complicated, and no one reform would prevent them.
But when due allowance has been made for the pressure of life and
all other causes, they seem to speak of a terrible loneliness; of
the isolation and crushing sense of solitariness and friendlessness
which has afflicted these poor souls. When all that coroners
and juries can say and do is before us, there is still left on the
mind the conviction that in most cases these poor creatures lost
their balance because they had something on their minds very often
some little trumpery thing, altogether inadequate to explain the
terrible result. Why didn't they speak? Why didn't they
open their minds? Why didn't they go to some judicious friend?
Ah! there's the rub! Why didn't they? Men were never
more sympathetic, never more anxious to help; never in the world's
history would a man's blunders receive such intelligent, sympathetic
consideration as now. But they do not do this! They are
showing us, every day, that they will die before they will do it.
And it must appear that a civilization, to say nothing of a
Christianity, that leaves such impressions on men's minds has
something wrong about it somewhere, or at least is sadly deficient.
How curiously one-sided and eccentric we are in our
sympathies! Many a gentle lady, who would not kill a fly, who
could not draw a splinter from a child's finger for fear of the
sight of blood, and who subscribes to the societies for the
prevention of cruelty to animals, cannot keep her domestics, and is
a byword amongst shop-assistants. Many another will not allow
the cabman to whip his horse, and yet keeps her whole household on
tenterhooks with a waspish tongue. There are numbers of men
who, in their own homes, are perfect; ideal husbands, indulgent
fathers, genial hosts, but who are called slave-drivers and sweaters
by their clerks and employees. Many a man will subscribe
lavishly to charities, but is pitiless to his own less fortunate
kith and kin.
We are not to make the vulgar mistake on these matters that
is made by the carping critic. When a man is generous towards
public movements but indifferent to private claims, the world says
he is a hypocrite. Nothing of the sort. These are cases
of misdirected, one-sided sympathy. Thank God, the humanizing
spirit is fast coming to its own amongst us; the new brotherhood,
the blessed Good Samaritanism of Jesus Christ, has not been so long
in the world for nothing—we are all touched by it, all feel its
softening, quickening influence. But the influence is as yet
undisciplined and misdirected. Satisfied with having it and
gratifying it somehow, we have not yet come, as we ought, to
exercise our brains upon it, and so our activities take many
inconsistent and even grotesque shapes. Many of us in our
social and philanthropic activities are like the crows which fly
four miles to fetch a stick to build a nest, when there is a far
better one under the tree where they live. Thank God, if any
man be in trouble in these days, there are fifty others who, having
known sorrow themselves, would help if they were given the chance.
No one is so accursed by fate,
No one so utterly desolate,
But some heart, though unknown,
Responds unto his own.
Responds as if, with unseen wings,
An angel touched its quivering strings,
And whispers in its song,
'Why hast thou stayed so long?' |
We want to get nearer together, to think for and care for
each other, for those commonplace persons we meet every day.
Everywhere, every day, 'there are lonely hearts to cherish as the
days are going by.' We wait for calls, wonder why chances of
usefulness do not come, when they are tinder our very noses, in our
homes and streets and social circles and churches.
Do the duty that is next to thee, help the friend that is
nearest to thee:
Heaven's gate is shut to him who comes
alone.
Save thou a soul, and it shall save thine own. |
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